The text that shouldn’t have been sent.

What is over-texting, and did I do it?

Over-texting is putting paragraphs where the thread called for a line. The imbalance is visible on the screen: your messages explain, justify and pre-apologise, while his answer fits on one row. It says more about how much you are carrying than about what he thinks.

Cómo se ve en la conversación

• You wrote paragraphs; he answered in one line — and the thread shows the imbalance.
• You explained, justified, or pre-apologized before the ask.
• Re-reading it, you feel smaller, not clearer.
• Your next move is to delete it — or wait for a reply that shouldn’t decide your week.

Los patrones describen comportamientos, no personas. Si algo se siente inseguro o abusivo, confía en eso antes que en cualquier lectura.