The temperature drops a little every week — slowly, deniably.
What does it mean when he is texting less?
Chronic cooling is a slow fade you can actually measure. Replies get shorter, initiation quietly becomes yours, and plans drift from “let’s” to “maybe” — each step small enough to deny on its own. It is only obvious when you line the weeks up side by side.
How it reads in the thread
- Reply length shrinks in small steps, not one big change.
- He still replies — that’s the trap — but initiations quietly become yours.
- Plan-making shifts from “let’s” to “maybe” to no answer at all.
- When you name it, the drop is always “just busy.”
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