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The temperature drops a little every week — slowly, deniably.

What does it mean when he is texting less?

Chronic cooling is a slow fade you can actually measure. Replies get shorter, initiation quietly becomes yours, and plans drift from “let’s” to “maybe” — each step small enough to deny on its own. It is only obvious when you line the weeks up side by side.

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